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Mirage seeks Oasis!

Male (61) looking for Female Eugene, Oregon, United States

Tall, 6'3". Capricorn. Great sense of humor, very witty. I try to see the good in ALL people. Seeing the good in plants and animals is Easy! Very compassionate, good listener. Eye contact and listening to others is becoming a lost art.

I am a musician for 40 plus years now. Love to write, draw, paint and of course listen to Music! A bit old fashioned, as in I firmly believe in the use of manners. Traveller rather extensively. First generation born in America. Most relatives live in Holland and Indonesia.

(Some) brown hair Lol! Blue eyes, silver and black goatee. Have a large bandanna collection. Love to wear them. Not to hide anything but because I think they are very cool. Love tye dye anything. Love nature. Love doing nice things for others. I believe the best gifts are made by hand, not money. I give amazing foot and body Rubs! Usually until you fall asleep. Very trustworthy and honest. Not afraid to do dishes, take out the trash, start your car on a cold winter morning... not egotestical (lol)

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageDutch
BuildAverage
Height191 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark brown
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureSmile
Body ArtStrategically placed tattoo
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusRetired

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Situation comedies, Instructional, Movies
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
Favorite moviesFlashback, Almost Famous, Princess Bride, Beetlejuice, Philadelphia, Goodfellas, Man On Fire, Westerns, Amadeus, Papillion, Natural Born Killers, Documentaries, Rockumentaries, Jungle book, My Left Foot, Big Fish, Dazed And Confused... The list is entire
Music typesRock, Electronic, Classical, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Reggae
Reading selectionBiography, Comic, Health, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry
Idea of funBonfires, ballooning, cookouts, flying, traveling, picnics, jam sessions, painting or anything artsy, scrabble, boggle, swimming, sight seeing, collecting shells and rocks and sea glass, exploring nature, new restaurants, deep talks, collecting Buddha statues, kits flying, boating, horseback riding, Photos hope, meeting new and interesting people, concerts, concerts, concerts, museums, star gazing, kissing, holding, animal lover, snow sculpting, camping, volunteering, cooking, philosophy, psychology, spirituality, Burning Man, parties, children, going for rides to nowhere in particular, skinny dipping and many many other things.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Movies, Games, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering, Computers

Personality

SmokerSmoke regularly (5-10 a day)
DrinkingRegular drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Class clown
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, Relaxing, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryHang gliding, scuba diving, tornado chasing, renaissance fair, hyuascca, having a salt water tropical fish tank, tye dying, bungee jumping, parachuting, learning a new instrument, learning a new language, delivering a baby, eating more unusual foods, living on an island, learning good magic tricks, traveling to new places, and again, many more things...

Views

Political viewsI don't like politics
ReligionBuddhist
Goal in lifeTo learn something from everything in life, good or bad. To find the love of my life and stay together forever. To be a clown on a pediatric cancer ward. To bring out the very best in others. To support my partners many interests. To be the best version of myself that I can be. To say and show "I love you" every day. To live as simply and meaningfully as possible. To get another meaningful and strategically placed tattoo. To work for Hospice. To learn how to sculpt marble and clay. To make someone feel so loved and wanted. To learn how to fly.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerCompassion, sensitivity, creativity, spirituality, openness, lover of music and good wine. Sensuality, humorous, secure with the body God gifted you with. A deep thinker. One who takes their time with love making. Honesty. A person I can trust with my heart. Adventurist. Someone who takes a genuine interest and is supportive of my interests, talents and beliefs. Willing to try new things. Lover of peace. Lover of animals. Lover of art. Ability to be vulnerable. Someone who likes to be downright silly. Just to mention a few things.
On the first dateHave to think about that. I think that should be up to both parties. But let's keep it simple? Maybe some tea or coffee and a talk? It takes time to cultivate a meaningful friendship, so let's get started. I'm ready.