I'm an eclectic mix of personas that range from adept exerciser to contented couch potato, intellectual acrobatic to playful jester , worldly traveler to inner city street smarts. I have a compassionate personality, hope never to stop learning, intrigued by people and what makes them tick, stand by my word, thoughtful, passionate, flexible, affectionate, generous...sometimes to a fault, a big kid at heart, and basically live by the Golden Rule.

A romantic at heart and hoping to find that"special someone". I'm experienced enough to know that the person you click with doesn't always come in the package you covet....I'm not looking for perfection(it doesn't exist)....I think a balance works well. You will catch my attention by what you are, by what you say, by your empathy and by your intelligence not by your wealth, social status, occupation, or possessions. Superficiality is a deal breaker for me.

I tend to be attracted to men who are communicative, introspective, adventurous and believe that the mind is also an erogenous zone. It seems to me that the best and most meaningful relationships, the ones that last, are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is someone that you can't wait to kiss.

I love photography, music, movies, reading, museums, intelligent conversation, politics,experiencing new cultures and countries, nature, exercising, slow dancing, off broadway theater, color red, holding hands, cuddling.